venus retrograde: six weeks to figure out what you love

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something big is happening in the stars again.

back in the beginning of july i eluded to the fact that this month was lining up to be an intense, powerful, inspiring month. i like to call it the summer of love. (read what i said about it –> here).

we’ve made it through one full moon, one new moon, and we have another full moon ( a blue moon actually) waiting in the wings.

but, first, we have what an encounter with venus… you know the goddess of love, the planet closest to us, and boy will this encounter give us an interesting ride.

beginning today, 40 days of venus retrograde begins. (july 25 – september 6)

if you remember, retrograde is when, if you look up in the night sky, it appears that something is moving backwards across the sky. of course, it actually isn’t, but the illusion of it seems to stir up lots of crazy things + powerful opportunities.

back in the late spring, we experienced mercury retrograde, which made things feel all topsy turvy. well, venus retrograde isn’t going to make us feel so scattered + out of control as we were back in the spring, but it will give us an amazing, emotional, intense opportunity to reassess our life.

especially when it comes to love. (makes sense, huh? being the name of the goddess of love?)

when venus turns retrograde today, we are being asked to look at exactly what love means for each of us. i am talking about love of others in our life, self-love, and what we have prioritized in our life.

as kate says: over the next 40 days, “we will have two options: to hide in the shadows and miss the opportunity of a lifetime, or to go after what is inside of our hearts.  it’s not a question of if we will make a big jump—but a matter of when. and there is a push to literally look around and see what truly makes us happy.”

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venus is giving us a chance to realign our awareness on love, relationships, what we value and what we’re worth. it’s a mystical, magical and important period that doesn’t come around all that often. it’s a time to reflect on the inner value of your experiences rather than outer display.

it’s all up to us whether we want to take advantage of this time to reflect and realign and take stock on what + who is really important to us. those things that we are most passionate about, that we really truly love, and are advantageous to our lives by helping us to live our truth.

the venus retrograde period turns out to be the perfect time to focus on the quality of life over the desire for financial gain, in other words, we get to decide for oversells what’s more important. money, power, success, security… or an authentic life, love, peace, etc. it’s ok whatever we choose. the point is to slow down just long enough to really think about what we are giving our time + attention to, what we say we love, and see if those two things line up. we are given a chance to reassess our priorities, in our work and in the people that we invite into our lives,  focusing on our inner need for contentment and fulfillment and what/who really makes us happy.

either way, this retrograde period is tempting us to reconsider our approach to relationships of all kinds: what’s important to us? what (and who) do we want in our lives, and why? and more importantly, what we have to offer?

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venus retrograde is a time when we may be forced to re-examine what we consider “worth it.” if we use the next 6 weeks wisely, we will think about the activities, people and things in which we have invested our time, energy, commitment and money… and if what they are giving us are the rewards we thought we had bargained for. not monetarily, of course, but in relation being true to ourselves + following our bliss.

it’s all about continuing to realign ourselves to that path in life where we feel that we are living our truth, living the life that we were called to live. 

again, kate says this: “we have to trust all the lessons in letting go of what was no longer serving us. and we have to believe that we have learned a lot about how we want to authentically live our lives.

venus will be in retrograde until september 6th… so take a deep breath, because this retrograde will be anything but casual. it’s all about how deep we can go”

lots of love to you all… and happy venus retrograde!

onwards + upwards! xoxo

countdown to the big arrival

i have posts drafted for today that i need to finish, and i have one for friday that i really need to complete too. but i’m just not in the mood. oh, i’ve had time today, but i can’t concentrate. i am too damn excited.

my brother arrives in 2 hours!

so, since i’ve been all excited and anxious, i’ve been doing lots of random things like, creating my august playlist (and it’s gonna be a good one), doing a little creative photoshop stuff, and basically killing time. good thing i’ve got a haircut appointment just before he arrives to help me get through the last hour. oh, and lina + i have made a few plans for our next two chicks + a chat vlog! so stay tuned for that in a few days.

in the meantime, here’s a little selfie from yesterday. lina + i headed down to norrköping to get away for a few days. we are meeting my brother here and  plan to show him around a bit, since lina + i used to live here. seriously. my mind is blown. i get to take my little bro all around + show him where i’ve lived, where i live now… basically share with him that swedish side of me. freaking out.

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hope you have a  great wednesday, friends. i know mine will be good!

onwards + upwards!

// week twenty nine // there’s nothing like a good work/play balance in life

happy monday, friends! i’m a nervous wreck today because i am texting back + forth with my brother giving him last minute tips before he boards his plane to come to europe!!

he will be taking off in about 6 hours from now to begin his journey, and since he is embarking on something completely new + solo traveling, i am on pins and needles with anticipation. he’ll be fine, but i just want all of the traveling to be over and for him to land in denmark tomorrow at this time!

in the meantime, as i play the concerned big sister role, i will also try to do some blogging + writing + organizing.

last week was a really great week for me. i got a lot of writing done. i felt super creative. and i began seriously working on some major plans for my future this fall. i’ve got some goals and some things that i’m not quite ready to talk about yet, but i have a made a big adjustment in taking some control over some things in my life – in dedicating + surrendering myself to a whole new step, a much deeper + higher way of living. and it feels oh so right. though it’s not all set in stone yet. there is much work to be done.

anyway, last week. there was lots of work. and there was lots of rest + play during the weekend. friday we ate dinner out at our fave little pub in town, with a friend who come up from stockholm for a quick visit + our neighbor/friend who we hadn’t seen in about 2 weeks.  both weekend days my love + i stayed home and in our pjs for the majority of the day. we enjoyed long breakfasts, time on the sofa, and dreamed about our future.

but, as evening came, we pulled ourselves together and headed out. saturday, we took a long, slow walk at sunset through the city and to the castle that stands high on the hill overlooking downtown + where we live. sunday evening we met a friend for fika, then a few beers by the river with some family/friend time.

so, here you go. the photos from my super grounded, busy + motivated week, balanced with my fairy tale, dreaming + relaxing week.

sunset-uppsala coffee-morning-window me-write-book me-vlog zola-meditate coffee-table-photos me-tattoos flowers-living-room-coffee-table peace-sign-me lina-me-summer-weekend me-sweater-dress summer-sky-birds-evening saturday-weekend-breakfast saturday-morning-black-and-white trees-castle castle-hill-uppsala uppsala-castle-path castle-tower castle-uppsala castle-side-sunset castle-shadows-lina-me sunset-uppsala-view cathedral-uppsala-sunset building-uppsala-sunset family-me-lina-zola-sunday beer-park-friendsalrighty, i’ve got stuff to do.  i’ll post a few pics of me + my brother in a few days!! gaaaaahhhhh! wishing you a great week, lovely readers!

onwards + upwards! xoxo