now we can breathe.


it’s finally officially official… again. my love has her visa!! (which she actually got in june – from the american embassy in stockholm). but, the most important thing now is that it is valid – which it was not when we landed, according to the lady checking our passports. there was a signature missing from lina’s university and without that one tiny little signature (the name was typed, but not signed), her whole visa and everything was invalid (even though the american embassy in stockholm issued and validated her visa).

anyway… so the department of homeland security (immigration and all that) whisked her into an interview room. read more about my experiences (= freak out meltdown at baggage claim) during her little interview time here. at the end of the interview, theyΒ gave her only one month to stay in the states. she had to get that signature from the person at her university and send the forms to washington, dc, and then they would validate her visa and she could stay. but it all had to be done within a month. and according to her passport when we arrived on july 18, they only gave her until august 16. so basically her visa was only good for ONE MONTH – not the five years that it actually said.

well, last week came and we began wondering if the US government was going to send back her forms and validate her visa for the whole 4-5 years again. i mean, it was only a week left until august 16. we checked the mail obsessively, but nothing arrived. we began wondering if we were gonna have to buy her a plane ticket back to sweden. well, the school was gonna have to buy the ticket, since it was their fault this was happening – though they have been great and totally, completely embarrassed & sorry this happened.

by today we were in a bit of panic mode. with only 3 days to go on her visa and only 3 days to legally be in the states, lina still had not received anything. so, lina emailed her university. long story, short. the school emailed her back at once and told her to call whoever in washington. then, they emailed almost immediately after that and said that there had been a letter delivered to them saying that her visa was now valid for the entire time and that we could come by and pick up the papers.

WOO HOO! now, lina is officially here for her entire university education!! now i/we can finally breathe completely and know that this is where we live… together. no worries about being separated (we dealt with that so much in the beginning of our relationship, living in separate countries, traveling back & forth, spending 3 months together, 3 months apart). but, now, we are here.

and we’re here to stay. for now… (hehe).

oh yeah! and more big news! our first visitors have booked their trip & bought their plane tickets!! next may, lina’s mom & two of her aunts will be spending a week with us. we’re so excited. so, all you other friends and family all over the world, in the states, wherever… the calendar’s filling up, so pick your dates and let us know!

i’m gonna go and celebrate now! peace out. love.

0 thoughts on “now we can breathe.

  1. Huge congrats! I know when my visa to stay indefinitely was granted it took a massive weight off our shoulders.
    And now you can put some roots down. πŸ™‚

    1. yes, finally, we can be settled for a bit! it felt amazing when i got my permanent residence visa in sweden, so now we both officially have 2 homes. πŸ™‚

  2. I am so glad! this has to have been unbelievably stressful. Really glad for you both that that parts over and finally dealt with !

    1. stressful, but doable. we survived and now we can enjoy! hope things are going ok with you. thinking of you… xx

      1. pretty much the same: stressful but doable. πŸ˜‰

        thanks for the thoughts … I’m trying to decide where and when to start blogging again. For now I’m just reading. πŸ™‚

    1. I look to following your journey as well. It is great to find people in the same situations. πŸ™‚

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